How does one succeed in life?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What was your embarrassing moment in front of your father-in-law as an Indian daughter-in-law?

Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What did your sister do to you that you can never forget?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Beautiful European women were killed by inquisition but Russia was not Catholic. Is this the reason for a drastic difference explaining why Russian women are the prettiest?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What is the original source of the discord between Princes Harry and William? Does it go back to their childhood, or did it start with Meghan Markle?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Does not procrastinate.

Why should we share our wife with others?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

I read this: "Putin is a brilliant, courageous, ingenious, determined, beloved, and incredible modern leader. He is currently the world’s most effective and strong leader, the best the world has seen in centuries." What do you think about this?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

That's it for today.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has anyone experienced an out of the body experience, as a child, years before you had ever heard the term or understood the implications?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.